Is a relationship between a coach and their athlete okay with you people?

No, no, no. It is a violation of the relationship between the athlete and the coach. If the athlete is of legal consenting age, and both the athlete AND the coach feel strong enough emtions, then the athlete should get another coach before pursuing any relationship. If they are of legal age, then the gap between ages isn't that big a deal, although age 25 is, in my opinion, the age that really constitues a decade or more gap being appropriate. If the coach is married or engaged, he/she should seek dissolution from the current relationship before pursuing another one out of respect for both parties involved. Otherwise, this is a severe violation of a mentoring position and the authority figure is taking advantage of the influence they have over their protege. I mean, let's face it...I am unsure of ANYONE that can say they didn't have a crush on a coach or teacher or someone in a position of mentorship or authority over them at some point in life. This is the way I see it. I hope it helps.